QUESTION: Consequences

Why do people complain about situations that their own actions have gotten them into?

if you can't handle the consequences why put yourself in that situation?

QUESTION: Exchanging Passwords

WHY ASK FOR YOUR GIRL/BOYFRIENDS PASSWORD FOR FACEBOOK, TWITTER, ETC BUT YOU CAN'T HANDLE WHAT YOU SEE ??

The only thing your looking for is to get hurt. If you have a gut feeling that he or she is up to no good then why bother being with them. A relationship is based on trust and if that's not there then its pointless.

QUESTION: Know Your Worth

WHY DO GUYS/GIRLS HOLD ON TO PEOPLE WHO AREN'T WORTH HOLDING ON TO ?

Talk about knowing your worth but yet settle for those who don't acknowledge it. People always cry and get mad at the person who puts them through so much but never takes themselves out of that predicament. Honestly, the real person you should be mad at is yourself. Though every situation people are either blind to whats going on or they just pretend not to see it; At the end of the day no one is keeping you there but yourself. I guess its just one of those things that are easier said then done.....love is blind !

QUESTION: Weren't happy but acted like you were !

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU WEREN'T HAPPY BUT ACTED LIKE YOU WERE ?

Best advice! If your not happy just get out of the relationship. People always put there feelings to the side just so that there significant other is happy. It takes two to make a relationship and once that doesn't happen whats the point.

I've honestly been in this situation before. I acted like everything was okay when I knew it wasn't. I thought  I could go through with my days staying with this person for all the wrong reasons. Time was going by when I finally realized it wasn't fair for the both of us. I should have never stayed in a relationship on the behalf of someone else and not me nor should I have strung him along, with him being clueless to how I really feel. 

Everyone deserves to be happy no matter the circumstances !

KEEPING IT REAL ISN'T THAT HARD !!

Why is it so hard to keep it real ????

When ever you meet someone most likely the chances are they are already talking to someone else but when you ask them they tell you no . Why is that??? People fail to realize when they tell the truth from the beginning what ever happens at the end is expected. When ever you make some one feel that they are the only one you are interested in everything becomes more complicated then it needs to be when you end up choosing the other person at the end. Theres always a better way to deal with things especially when other peoples feelings are involved.  If your going to take that much time out of someones life you might as well let them decide on what they want to do with it. Though sometimes keeping it real may hurt the other persons feelings at least they don't look stupid. As i wrote in a previous post  " I RATHER FEEL HURT THEN LOOK STUPID " just keep it real ! 


Don't spare our feelings, Spare our time & keep it real. We can fix our feelings over time, time is something we can never get back.

Taking More Than What You Can Handle.

Why People Cheat???

So I've been sitting here thinking for the most logical reason on why people cheat; whether its to get even or just cause. Not that any reason would make it okay but it happens.

Ever heard of the saying "your eyes are bigger than your stomach" ?? Meaning people tend to take more food than what their stomach can handle. In this case thats exactly what people do. Not every person is meant for a relationship because they just don't know when to stick with their main course. People are greedy in every sense of the word. They want every bad chick/guy that walks in their path. They may truly and deeply love the person that they're with but they also want "that girl or guy". Its like going to a buffet; you always go straight after your favorite dish but you also want to sample everything else on the table. Over flow your plate and it just gets messyyyyy.
Its a cruel world we live in you just got to know how to handle yours. !

QUESTION: Relationship w|. Friends.

Your attracted to one of your good friends and would like to get something going, but to afraid to mess up your friendship. 

what do you think??

QUESTION: Moving on

WHY IS IT THAT WHEN YOU MOVE ON FROM YOUR EX AND START SOMETHING GOOD WITH THE NEXT. THATS WHEN THEY WANT TO COME RUNNING BACK TO YOU???

LIKE GO AWAY! K. Thanks

(don't move backwards move forward)

SCENARIO / QUESTION: Crossing boundaries

Scenario: You meet a guy/girl at a party (mutual area) and you guys become cool.  You have a girl/guy back at home and you do nothing to disrespect them. You and this person conversation is getting personal but you go along with it just to keep you occupied. Later on down the line the question pops up...Do you have a girl/man??? and you say yes. !Then they ask if your happy with them and do the satisfy your needs???
blah blah blah

Question: Why do people feel the need to try to cross that boundary when it was stated that they have someone????

(when someone says yes to that question thats your queue to change the topic and/or keep it moving -__-)

#imjustsaying

QUESTION: Downplay their guy/girlfriends..

HOW MANY GUYS/GIRL DOWNPLAY THEIR GIRL/BOYFRIENDS JUST SO THEY CAN TALK OR FLIRT WITH OTHER PEOPLE ????

( or suspect that the guy/girlfriend does it )

ever heard.....

"yea shes my girl/boyfriend but its nothing serious"

"nahh. thats not my girl/boyfriend thats my joint."

"idk man. he/she just wont leave me alone"

etc...

[ I DONT EXPECT YOU GUYS TO BE HONEST BUT IT HAPPENS. ]

QUESTION: HARD TO GET??

Why do people play "hard to get"?

Its about to be 2010. You still on that?????

[i've realized when you pay no mind to them after a while they cut that shxt out. LMAO. but know if there really not interested. SMH! ]

QUESTION: WOULD YOU TELL.....

Your in a committed relationship and you go on a date with someone you just met or used to talk to and it could be absolutely nothing......

Would you tell your Girl/boyfriend ??!??

QUESTION:MOST APPEALING

What is the most appealing thing to you about a girl/ guy???

it could range from looks to what they wear...

QUESTION: WHY DO GIRLS

Why do girls get slutted up when the go to a club but then get mad when guys are all over them

and bust out the cleavage but expect us to stare at their eyes????

asked by @Donnie_Bravo

QUESTION: BEST FRIEND INFLUENCE

 I feel like i should step it up with the questions. I'll try to post one everyday.....or maybe every other day. LOL

ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!! also; if you have any questions of your own that you would like to get out. DONT BE SHY. I will gladly post them and answer; even our other followers can help you. :]

just email me @ dligonde23@gmail.com !!!!

thanks guys!!!! xoxo

QUESTION:  Do your best friend|s influence the type of girls/boys you like???
via: @richgill

QUESTION: WHY DO PEOPLE

Why do people have to loose somebody in order to realize what they had really meant something to them?

like why cant they realize what they have is good. i'm tired of these second chances! like deadass tho!!. -__-

via: unknown source from twitter. LOL (thanx tho)

QUESTION: WHY DO WOMEN

Why do women expect guys to make the first move???

[ we rather not get deaded. I mean we know you guys don't like it either but we figured by now you guys are used to it so getting deaded doesn't effect you as much. and guys are more harsh or females are just more sensitive. so just MAN UP and make your move. Trust; if its suppose to happen its gonna happen. Most likely if we were left to make the first move everything will just be at a stand still and you wont know what could of happened at the end of the night. ] ( speaking in general because i do know a lot of females including myself that goes after ours. but then at the same time its all about how you do it because a lot of you girls are birds. No offense.....no matter of fact i take that back....you guys are birds and you make me and those who are in the same boat as me look bad. SMH -_- )

( Obama needs to teach most of you men a few things. LMAO )

Do any guys out there still believe in chivalry???

[ there has to be at least one. What ever happened to opening our door, pulling out our chair, giving us your jacket when we're cold, making us walk on the inside of the sidewalk whenever we're walking somewhere???? ] (like its chivalry really dead or just your parents didn't teach you guys well because ya'll slacking. especially for this generation men. you guys are full of shxt and you know it but then again its a lot of you birds that make them feel that way about themselves. SMH )

QUESTION: WHO CHEATS..

WHO CHEATS MORE GUYS OR GIRLS???

open for debate. LOL i don't judge :]

QUESTION: CAN YOU REALLY TRUST

You and your best-friend have either similar taste in guys/girls or very different but you end up going out with someone you know your best friend is clearly going to be attracted too...

Can you really trust your best friend with your boyfriend??

10 Questions I Ask Myself As Of October ?!

1. Why is this NY weather so Bi-polar ?!
2. How can i fast forward to get my car ?!
3. What am i going to do for my 20th birthday ?! (Dec. 23)
4. Why do i attract such jerks.
5. Whyy did Kanye do that ?!
6. What is the world coming to with all these crazyy news headlines ?! (wifes/husbands killing eachother, their kids, violence, etc) -_-
7. Why are the most birdish, ghetto girls cuffed ???! hahaaa..
8. What is going to be my next move to improve Lipstick & Labels ?? =]
9. Why don't boys ever know what they want ?
10. Do you have a blackberry ?! If so.. Add Me !! =)  BBM PIN: 30BF81C9